Makna Menjaga Keharmonisan Rumah Tangga dalam Perspektif Pasangan Suami Isteri Tanpa Anak di Desa Simpang Empat Kecamatan Amuntai Selatan

Rizka Awalia

Abstract


Kebahagiaan dalam rumah tangga merupakan tujuan utama dalam pernikahan, termasuk bagi pasangan yang tidak memiliki anak. Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk memahami makna kebahagiaan dalam rumah tangga tanpa anak dari sudut pandang pasangan muslim di Desa Simpang Empat Kecamatan Amuntai Selatan. Penelitian ini menggunakan pendekatan kualitatif dengan metode studi kasus. Data dikumpulkan melalui wawancara mendalam terhadap pasangan muslim yang telah menikah lebih dari lima tahun tanpa memiliki anak. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan bahwa kebahagiaan dalam rumah tangga tanpa anak tidak hanya bergantung pada keberadaan anak, tetapi juga pada kualitas hubungan pernikahan, komunikasi yang efektif, dukungan sosial, dan keselarasan dengan nilai-nilai agama. Pasangan yang mampu menerima kondisi mereka dengan ikhlas dan menjadikan pernikahan sebagai ladang ibadah cenderung memiliki tingkat kebahagiaan yang lebih tinggi. Faktor utama yang berkontribusi pada keharmonisan rumah tangga mereka antara lain adalah saling menerima, membangun kedekatan emosional, dan keterlibatan dalam kegiatan sosial dan keagamaan. Penelitian ini menegaskan bahwa kebahagiaan dalam rumah tangga bersifat subjektif dan dapat dibentuk melalui pemaknaan hidup yang lebih luas di luar keturunan.

Keywords


Rumah Tangga; Keharmonisan; Suami; Isteri; Anak

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